Online on Messenger when I'm not.

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cocotte2011 Posted messages 4 Status Membre -  
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Hello,

I have a big problem that's bothering me!

Let me explain: I don’t have a personal Facebook (I use my friend’s on the web and on Android), my fiancé has one (also web and Android) (but he doesn’t know that I occasionally use my friend’s).

Tonight around 9 PM my fiancé tells me he is going to bed because he is sick/tired/or something.... I believe him, but here I am, if I log in via the web, he appears to be online (there's no green dot, but just the elapsed time since his last connection). It never lasts long, just 1 to 2 minutes but it’s regular (like every few minutes I see the elapsed time changing).
The same happens if I check via Android on Messenger.... active for 1 to 2 minutes, and this every few minutes!

Just now on the web I see he logged in 1 minute ago (even though it's 2:51 in the morning!)

I started to note some times late tonight ...
active from 1:52 to 1:54
active at 2:00
active at 2:02, at 2:11, 2:13, 2:20, 2:22, 2:30, 2:40 ......

I have already asked him about it since this is not the first time it happens, he told me he was not logged in and that it must be a Facebook bug ...... and/or his phone (take your pick)

So my question is:
Do you think it’s possible that his mobile phone connects to Facebook or Messenger automatically without him manipulating it? (that’s what he’s trying to make me believe)

Or has this happened to you before? Is it materially possible? Technically?

I need to know, we’re supposed to live together soon and I have doubts :(

Thank you! I've gone through quite a few help forums and even Facebook; I haven't found any answers.

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Freefoon Posted messages 209 Status Member 162
 
Hello,

I have a big problem that's bothering me!

Let me explain: I don’t have a personal Facebook (I use my friend’s on the web and on Android), my fiancé has one (also web and Android) (but he doesn’t know that I occasionally use my friend’s).

Tonight around 9 PM my fiancé tells me he is going to bed because he is sick/tired/or something.... I believe him, but here I am, if I log in via the web, he appears to be online (there's no green dot, but just the elapsed time since his last connection). It never lasts long, just 1 to 2 minutes but it’s regular (like every few minutes I see the elapsed time changing).
The same happens if I check via Android on Messenger.... active for 1 to 2 minutes, and this every few minutes!

Just now on the web I see he logged in 1 minute ago (even though it's 2:51 in the morning!)

I started to note some times late tonight ...
active from 1:52 to 1:54
active at 2:00
active at 2:02, at 2:11, 2:13, 2:20, 2:22, 2:30, 2:40 ......

I have already asked him about it since this is not the first time it happens, he told me he was not logged in and that it must be a Facebook bug ...... and/or his phone (take your pick)

So my question is:
Do you think it’s possible that his mobile phone connects to Facebook or Messenger automatically without him manipulating it? (that’s what he’s trying to make me believe)

Or has this happened to you before? Is it materially possible? Technically?

I need to know, we’re supposed to live together soon and I have doubts :(

Thank you! I've gone through quite a few help forums and even Facebook; I haven't found any answers.
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cocotte1120
 
Hello,

I have a big problem that's bothering me!

Let me explain: I don’t have a personal Facebook (I use my friend’s on the web and on Android), my fiancé has one (also web and Android) (but he doesn’t know that I occasionally use my friend’s).

Tonight around 9 PM my fiancé tells me he is going to bed because he is sick/tired/or something.... I believe him, but here I am, if I log in via the web, he appears to be online (there's no green dot, but just the elapsed time since his last connection). It never lasts long, just 1 to 2 minutes but it’s regular (like every few minutes I see the elapsed time changing).
The same happens if I check via Android on Messenger.... active for 1 to 2 minutes, and this every few minutes!

Just now on the web I see he logged in 1 minute ago (even though it's 2:51 in the morning!)

I started to note some times late tonight ...
active from 1:52 to 1:54
active at 2:00
active at 2:02, at 2:11, 2:13, 2:20, 2:22, 2:30, 2:40 ......

I have already asked him about it since this is not the first time it happens, he told me he was not logged in and that it must be a Facebook bug ...... and/or his phone (take your pick)

So my question is:
Do you think it’s possible that his mobile phone connects to Facebook or Messenger automatically without him manipulating it? (that’s what he’s trying to make me believe)

Or has this happened to you before? Is it materially possible? Technically?

I need to know, we’re supposed to live together soon and I have doubts :(

Thank you! I've gone through quite a few help forums and even Facebook; I haven't found any answers.
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Freefoon Posted messages 209 Status Member 162
 
Hello,

I have a big problem that's bothering me!

Let me explain: I don’t have a personal Facebook (I use my friend’s on the web and on Android), my fiancé has one (also web and Android) (but he doesn’t know that I occasionally use my friend’s).

Tonight around 9 PM my fiancé tells me he is going to bed because he is sick/tired/or something.... I believe him, but here I am, if I log in via the web, he appears to be online (there's no green dot, but just the elapsed time since his last connection). It never lasts long, just 1 to 2 minutes but it’s regular (like every few minutes I see the elapsed time changing).
The same happens if I check via Android on Messenger.... active for 1 to 2 minutes, and this every few minutes!

Just now on the web I see he logged in 1 minute ago (even though it's 2:51 in the morning!)

I started to note some times late tonight ...
active from 1:52 to 1:54
active at 2:00
active at 2:02, at 2:11, 2:13, 2:20, 2:22, 2:30, 2:40 ......

I have already asked him about it since this is not the first time it happens, he told me he was not logged in and that it must be a Facebook bug ...... and/or his phone (take your pick)

So my question is:
Do you think it’s possible that his mobile phone connects to Facebook or Messenger automatically without him manipulating it? (that’s what he’s trying to make me believe)

Or has this happened to you before? Is it materially possible? Technically?

I need to know, we’re supposed to live together soon and I have doubts :(

Thank you! I've gone through quite a few help forums and even Facebook; I haven't found any answers.
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