Someone is reading my emails.

Hi Bekva!

You need to clean your computer and then your Hotmail (in that order).


For the computer, you should press ctrl+alt+delete. Then, make a list (or a screenshot) of everything there is. This way we could see if any spyware is installed.

After that, you need to check what you have on startup. Go to start/run/ and type "msconfig". It will bring up a window with several tabs. Choose the "startup" tab and send us a screenshot (or a list, but that could take a while to write). And post it on the forum.

Do you have a firewall for your computer? If so, you should check the outgoing software, so if there's a program you don't recognize, let us know and we'll tell you what it is.


These three steps should help us ensure your PC is clean.

Only after that should we take care of your Hotmail address.


For Hotmail...

First, check that he hasn’t changed the settings in your email inbox.

For example, he might have put one of your contacts on a blacklist. That would explain why you’re not receiving certain emails.

So check your entire profile. Change your security question, your recovery email, check your entire blacklist and whitelist, etc...


In short, check your whole account.


After that, I believe there's a 99.99999% chance he can still read your messages.


And on second thought, he might not even have been able to read your messages. If he could, he surely wouldn’t have told you. This way, he could have continued peacefully.

See you later!

I thought about the "bluff" solution, but he gave me concrete and undeniable proof, so unfortunately for me, he really did read it.
Thank you for all these "tips."
Tonight, Operation "Clean-up"!!!
Thank you.

If he does that, it's because he adores you, right?...