Sending Messenger messages without being friends Solved

Question

Hello,
I just received a friend request on Facebook from someone I've never heard of before; so far, nothing unusual.
When I looked at their profile, there was no profile picture, no cover photo, no posts, no information in the "about" section, just 7 friends...
In short, everything suggests someone who doesn't want to reveal too much about themselves...
As I looked into these 7 friends, and following the famous path of friends of friends, I realized there’s a good chance it could actually be someone I know after all (an ex...)
So that’s the context...
Now, here’s my question:
Since I have no proof of what I'm claiming, I would like to send her a message on Messenger...
Will this message be the only one she reads if she doesn't accept my friend request, or could I send her others that she would receive and could read later even if she doesn’t reply?
I'm not sure I'm being clear...!
Basically, if I ask her who she is and how she knows me in this first message, and she doesn't accept my Messenger friend request, will I be able to send her another message to let her know that I think I know who is behind this profile?
Thank you in advance for your responses, and I wish you a pleasant day,
See you soon then...
Best regards,
Jibouille

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Sourisverte2 · Accepted Answer

Hello

You can send him all the messages you want. As long as you're not friends, it will be filtered... accessible only from the computer.

;)

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Whoever wants to be right always looks for the last word... Those who are truly right have stopped talking a while ago.

Sourisverte2 · Answer

Hello

With the new update of Messenger (which happened for me yesterday), you can access filtered messages from Messenger as well.
Just in case.

;)

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Those who want to be right always seek the last word... Those who are truly right have stopped talking a while ago.

Jibouille · Answer

Hello Sourisverte2,

I waited a few days for the update to propagate ...
Two days ago, I finally accepted her invitation ...
I immediately categorized her as "Acquaintances" and then posted my comment on her Messenger,

Since then, I've noticed that she has logged in several times ("Online xxx hours ago"), but I don't see "read" or even the little empty circle since there is no profile picture ...
I have a small circle with a gray checkmark that might mean the post reached its destination but hasn't been opened yet ...

Is it possible that she opened it without my knowledge?

Maybe being categorized as acquaintances is not enough for her to access this message?

Thank you in advance for your response ...

Have a great day and see you soon ...
Sincerely,
Jibouille

Jibouille · Answer

Good evening Sourisverte2,

Can you explain to me what restricted mode is, please?

How does it work and what is the way to implement it...

I know it's not worth it, but I'm just trying to protect myself!

I think in the long run, I will block her account...

She will probably find another way to interfere in my life anyway!

In any case, really, I thank you for your answers...

Have a nice evening and thank you again for everything you do for me,
Jibouille

Jibouille · Answer

Thank you very much, Sourisverte2,

As always, your response has enlightened me,

I believe that it's not through Messenger that I'll manage to convince her to leave me alone...

I think that even in restricted mode, I still give her too much access to me. I share, in "public" mode, all my "friendship": lost dogs and cats, internship or job requests, cooking recipes...

The best thing is to gently force her to pass by...
Blocking this account seems to be the best solution!

Again, thank you, Sourisverte2, for all the help you have kindly provided me and for your knowledge:
They have been a great help and have taught me a lot of things...

I think it's nice that you share your knowledge with people like me, and I thank you once again!

Have a good evening,
Jibouille

Sending Messenger messages without being friends

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