How to flirt with a girl when you're shy
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Hello,
I am new in my class and I would like some advice on how to flirt with a girl when you are shy. Do I have a chance? Thank you in advance.
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am new in my class and I would like some advice on how to flirt with a girl when you are shy. Do I have a chance? Thank you in advance.
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Tell yourself that you are not as you think you are, but as others see you.
Present a positive image of yourself, the guy who is fearless, confident, relaxed, and everyone will think that’s the case. Even if you’re terrified inside, over time, since people will act and interact with you as if you’re strong, you will actually become strong.
Even the tough guy at school cries at night when he’s sad.
Teachers are scared to death when they enter a classroom.
Girls project an image of people who control their environment but are just like you, like everyone else... vulnerable, sensitive, and wanting to feel loved and appreciated.
Present a positive image of yourself, the guy who is fearless, confident, relaxed, and everyone will think that’s the case. Even if you’re terrified inside, over time, since people will act and interact with you as if you’re strong, you will actually become strong.
Even the tough guy at school cries at night when he’s sad.
Teachers are scared to death when they enter a classroom.
Girls project an image of people who control their environment but are just like you, like everyone else... vulnerable, sensitive, and wanting to feel loved and appreciated.
It's a delicate question... all girls are different, they like different things...
But one thing is certain, you can't just barge into her life and want to date her.
What if you started by showing her that you're interested in her?
What if you tried to be her friend first?
That would allow you to get closer to her, she would get to know you and you wouldn't scare her as much.
Then things will unfold naturally!
You just need to be patient. If you rush things, you'll come off as a total creep and she will push you away (you can't imagine how many creeps approach them, girls^^) It's up to you to stand out and be the nice, attentive guy. The one she wants to see when she needs to talk, wants to go out, etc...
But one thing is certain, you can't just barge into her life and want to date her.
What if you started by showing her that you're interested in her?
What if you tried to be her friend first?
That would allow you to get closer to her, she would get to know you and you wouldn't scare her as much.
Then things will unfold naturally!
You just need to be patient. If you rush things, you'll come off as a total creep and she will push you away (you can't imagine how many creeps approach them, girls^^) It's up to you to stand out and be the nice, attentive guy. The one she wants to see when she needs to talk, wants to go out, etc...
you know that you are shy... it's a good thing to understand it...
so, since it's "dead"... that in any case, no matter what you say or do,
because of your shyness, it's doomed!
so, since it's doomed, "dead" from the start,
why not just not care, tell yourself... well... in any case... what do I have to lose?
what am I risking? it's already dead! due to my shyness!
thus, the weight on your shoulders from your shyness will disappear,
you will feel... free.
ps: as long as you tell yourself and repeat and admit (this trick) just before going to talk to her!
so, since it's "dead"... that in any case, no matter what you say or do,
because of your shyness, it's doomed!
so, since it's doomed, "dead" from the start,
why not just not care, tell yourself... well... in any case... what do I have to lose?
what am I risking? it's already dead! due to my shyness!
thus, the weight on your shoulders from your shyness will disappear,
you will feel... free.
ps: as long as you tell yourself and repeat and admit (this trick) just before going to talk to her!
exactly, what's the worst that could happen? she's not going to eat you, you're not going to die, and you know, despite appearances, she's probably just as scared as you are, even if she shows the opposite.
Invite her for a drink, go to the movies, walk her home, spend time with her...
You have to remember that throughout your life, you're going to face failures, that's completely normal, but if you don't try anything... nothing will happen. Go for it. Approach her, just say hello as you pass by, and little by little, you'll find things to say to her, she will too. Maybe she'll be the one making the move later.
Invite her for a drink, go to the movies, walk her home, spend time with her...
You have to remember that throughout your life, you're going to face failures, that's completely normal, but if you don't try anything... nothing will happen. Go for it. Approach her, just say hello as you pass by, and little by little, you'll find things to say to her, she will too. Maybe she'll be the one making the move later.
If someone impresses you, imagine them, constipated, sitting on the toilet trying to push.
You'll see that they look just as silly as you do!