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Hello,
I met a young Russian woman on a dating site, who contacted me first.
She gave me her email address so we wouldn't communicate through the dating site anymore. She seems young (20 years old) on the dating site, but in the photos she sent me through her personal email, her hairstyle has changed, and she looks 30 years old, a beautiful blonde woman.
We've been communicating every day for five days, she sends me her photos, says she is looking for (in broken French, but that’s okay...) a sincere man who doesn’t cheat, and if I am that man, then maybe one day....
I don’t know if I should believe her or not; she hasn’t asked me for money yet and wants to get to know me. She seems well-dressed, says she is a nurse in Cheboksary and lives with her mother.
Who can advise me? Am I not falling victim to a future scam? And how can I break off communication if that’s the case? It’s delicate; I’m afraid she might be sincere and I’d disappoint her. Thank you for your responses, friends.
I met a young Russian woman on a dating site, who contacted me first.
She gave me her email address so we wouldn't communicate through the dating site anymore. She seems young (20 years old) on the dating site, but in the photos she sent me through her personal email, her hairstyle has changed, and she looks 30 years old, a beautiful blonde woman.
We've been communicating every day for five days, she sends me her photos, says she is looking for (in broken French, but that’s okay...) a sincere man who doesn’t cheat, and if I am that man, then maybe one day....
I don’t know if I should believe her or not; she hasn’t asked me for money yet and wants to get to know me. She seems well-dressed, says she is a nurse in Cheboksary and lives with her mother.
Who can advise me? Am I not falling victim to a future scam? And how can I break off communication if that’s the case? It’s delicate; I’m afraid she might be sincere and I’d disappoint her. Thank you for your responses, friends.
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It's more complicated than a simple scam; you're going to fall for her, she's going to leave her country and her friends for you, and she will want to live with you. After a year, she'll need her paperwork to be able to stay in France: the only solution is marriage, which you will accept because she will be a model wife at home for as long as it takes. But as soon as you have a kid with her, the problems will start: She won't do anything during the day, will annoy you under the pretext that she is your wife, and will use the child as leverage for poor blackmail. So here's some good advice: if she comes to see you, she should live separately and have a job in France; that's the solution to avoid all these very common problems. Their only goal is to live in France and have the "married" status... they are capable of marrying someone they don't love just for the money and to impress their friends in Russia... there you have it, they are not at all like us. It's cultural and it often causes problems in couples. I'm speaking from experience.
Good luck.
Good luck.
me too, I have a right to it, hihihi the famous "mariaprim79@yahoo.fr";
How are you? I hope everything is well. I am fine.
I am delighted to receive your letters. Thank you very much. I enjoy our
correspondence and your letters help me understand your life. Tell me
more about everything in your life. I will be coming soon and I would like to know
what I can about France while still in Russia.
How are your days? My days are the same. I take care of
the same things every day and it scares me a little.
I live and I realize my life is passing. Thanks to you, my
days are full of joy and emotions. Thank you for your letters. They
fill my days, it's true. Don't think that these are just words. I always say what I feel... Or at least I think so.
From your letters, I see that you are a good and sincere man.
You know, some time ago I didn’t think about my
trip to France. But sometimes life changes very quickly. I would like to
explain my situation and how I decided to come to
France.
I already told you that I finished school in 1996 and I started my
medical studies at the university in Saint Petersburg. In 2002, I graduated from university. My parents changed their apartment to a smaller one. The money difference allowed me to buy a small
apartment in Saint Petersburg. From 2002 to 2006, I worked in
several state and private dental clinics in Saint Petersburg.
At that time, I was dating my former classmate, and we decided to start our own dental practice. He was always a good organizer and I decided we could work together.
We were in love, young and we had success. I sold my apartment
and we started our business. We lived together and I thought about
marriage, but Oleg (that's his name) asked me to wait. I understood him. We had a lot of work. I handled our clients,
Oleg worked with the paperwork and dealt with the necessary people. We also hired a few employees. Legally, he was
the owner of everything, but I didn’t worry about that. I was in love and thought I would feel that way always. We had a
good relationship and understanding. But I was naive and did not understand that he had other plans. He cheated on me and one day I saw him with another woman. She was one of our employees. It was very hard for me. I went away for a few days to my uncle’s in Primorsk to think about this situation and decide what to do in the future. When I returned to Saint Petersburg, I tried to find Oleg to discuss everything, but he didn't want to see me. I went to our office, but it was closed. I had a bad intention and hired a lawyer. I wanted to dissolve our business to continue my work. I filed a lawsuit against him. My lawyer tried to reclaim half of the money. The trial lasted four months. But I couldn't recover anything. Legally, the arrangement was valid and I could not prove I was a co-owner. It was a hard blow for me. At that day, I lost everything.
When my mother found out, she fell ill. She had heart problems and was hospitalized. Now she feels better, but she needs treatment.
It was very hard for me. Fortunately, my uncle helped me recover from this tragedy. After these events, I went to stay with him in Primorsk. He helped me find a job at the local hospital and rent my first
apartment. I am grateful to him for his help. Now I am in good shape. I have money to pay for my program, and I look to the future with more optimism than at that time.
The decision to work in France was unexpected. I met an old university friend and she advised me to try. I have a good qualification, a lot of experience, and knowledge of French. I applied for the position and received a positive response. For this program, I need to pay 1500 euros. I haven’t spent much money and I managed to save this amount. Now nothing prevents me from coming to France. My documents will be ready next week. I am looking forward to this moment; I will receive them in Moscow. In Moscow, I will see the list of cities where I can work. There are positions available in all regions of France. I will try to work near you. I would like to meet you more often to get to know you better.
I have already decided to stay in France if I find my love there.
Maybe one day I can have my own dental practice.
This exchange program will help me come to France to get to know this country. France is much more developed than Russia and you have more opportunities. I would like to have a family and children. I am ready to work hard to live comfortably and be happy.
Sandy, I enjoy our correspondence and I feel that we are becoming closer and closer. I like you and I would like to meet you in France.
I went to our union in Saint Petersburg and learned some news about my program. Our union is managing my trip and gives me updates. The French government will provide apartments for Russian doctors and our work will be paid.
Next week I will go to Moscow to pick up my passport and take extra courses. When my passport is ready, I will be invited to Moscow. I have to wait a few more days. In Moscow, I will meet the other doctors who will go to France with me. Soon after my trip to Moscow, I will leave for France. It will be in 2 or 3 weeks.
I have some information about the program. It’s an internal program of the health ministry and only state doctors can participate. I will know the details after my arrival in Moscow to get the papers.
Yesterday I had a meeting with my friends. Almost all my friends are young girls from my work. We drank tea and laughed. They are good people. I love them. I regret that we cannot meet more often after work. They are married, have families and children, which is why they are always busy. You know, I told them about you. They were very happy for me. They already asked when our meeting would take place. I explained that we correspond and that I would be happy to meet you. They laughed at me the whole evening. They send their regards to you. I would like to introduce you to them one day.
Sandy, I would like to call you. Give me your number and I will call you. I don’t promise that I will do it quickly, but I will try. There is still no phone at my place (I rent an apartment in a new building and the line is not yet installed), I will call you from a payphone.
Well, I have to go. Tell me how you spend your days. What news do you have? I will tell you more about myself in my next letter.
My regards to your mom! It’s sad to grow up without paternal love; I am very sorry.
Yours, Maria.
p.s., I am really glad that we met
--This is her last message, I am waiting for the follow-up—but how far will she go? --------------------------------------------------------------------
i
How are you? I hope everything is well. I am fine.
I am delighted to receive your letters. Thank you very much. I enjoy our
correspondence and your letters help me understand your life. Tell me
more about everything in your life. I will be coming soon and I would like to know
what I can about France while still in Russia.
How are your days? My days are the same. I take care of
the same things every day and it scares me a little.
I live and I realize my life is passing. Thanks to you, my
days are full of joy and emotions. Thank you for your letters. They
fill my days, it's true. Don't think that these are just words. I always say what I feel... Or at least I think so.
From your letters, I see that you are a good and sincere man.
You know, some time ago I didn’t think about my
trip to France. But sometimes life changes very quickly. I would like to
explain my situation and how I decided to come to
France.
I already told you that I finished school in 1996 and I started my
medical studies at the university in Saint Petersburg. In 2002, I graduated from university. My parents changed their apartment to a smaller one. The money difference allowed me to buy a small
apartment in Saint Petersburg. From 2002 to 2006, I worked in
several state and private dental clinics in Saint Petersburg.
At that time, I was dating my former classmate, and we decided to start our own dental practice. He was always a good organizer and I decided we could work together.
We were in love, young and we had success. I sold my apartment
and we started our business. We lived together and I thought about
marriage, but Oleg (that's his name) asked me to wait. I understood him. We had a lot of work. I handled our clients,
Oleg worked with the paperwork and dealt with the necessary people. We also hired a few employees. Legally, he was
the owner of everything, but I didn’t worry about that. I was in love and thought I would feel that way always. We had a
good relationship and understanding. But I was naive and did not understand that he had other plans. He cheated on me and one day I saw him with another woman. She was one of our employees. It was very hard for me. I went away for a few days to my uncle’s in Primorsk to think about this situation and decide what to do in the future. When I returned to Saint Petersburg, I tried to find Oleg to discuss everything, but he didn't want to see me. I went to our office, but it was closed. I had a bad intention and hired a lawyer. I wanted to dissolve our business to continue my work. I filed a lawsuit against him. My lawyer tried to reclaim half of the money. The trial lasted four months. But I couldn't recover anything. Legally, the arrangement was valid and I could not prove I was a co-owner. It was a hard blow for me. At that day, I lost everything.
When my mother found out, she fell ill. She had heart problems and was hospitalized. Now she feels better, but she needs treatment.
It was very hard for me. Fortunately, my uncle helped me recover from this tragedy. After these events, I went to stay with him in Primorsk. He helped me find a job at the local hospital and rent my first
apartment. I am grateful to him for his help. Now I am in good shape. I have money to pay for my program, and I look to the future with more optimism than at that time.
The decision to work in France was unexpected. I met an old university friend and she advised me to try. I have a good qualification, a lot of experience, and knowledge of French. I applied for the position and received a positive response. For this program, I need to pay 1500 euros. I haven’t spent much money and I managed to save this amount. Now nothing prevents me from coming to France. My documents will be ready next week. I am looking forward to this moment; I will receive them in Moscow. In Moscow, I will see the list of cities where I can work. There are positions available in all regions of France. I will try to work near you. I would like to meet you more often to get to know you better.
I have already decided to stay in France if I find my love there.
Maybe one day I can have my own dental practice.
This exchange program will help me come to France to get to know this country. France is much more developed than Russia and you have more opportunities. I would like to have a family and children. I am ready to work hard to live comfortably and be happy.
Sandy, I enjoy our correspondence and I feel that we are becoming closer and closer. I like you and I would like to meet you in France.
I went to our union in Saint Petersburg and learned some news about my program. Our union is managing my trip and gives me updates. The French government will provide apartments for Russian doctors and our work will be paid.
Next week I will go to Moscow to pick up my passport and take extra courses. When my passport is ready, I will be invited to Moscow. I have to wait a few more days. In Moscow, I will meet the other doctors who will go to France with me. Soon after my trip to Moscow, I will leave for France. It will be in 2 or 3 weeks.
I have some information about the program. It’s an internal program of the health ministry and only state doctors can participate. I will know the details after my arrival in Moscow to get the papers.
Yesterday I had a meeting with my friends. Almost all my friends are young girls from my work. We drank tea and laughed. They are good people. I love them. I regret that we cannot meet more often after work. They are married, have families and children, which is why they are always busy. You know, I told them about you. They were very happy for me. They already asked when our meeting would take place. I explained that we correspond and that I would be happy to meet you. They laughed at me the whole evening. They send their regards to you. I would like to introduce you to them one day.
Sandy, I would like to call you. Give me your number and I will call you. I don’t promise that I will do it quickly, but I will try. There is still no phone at my place (I rent an apartment in a new building and the line is not yet installed), I will call you from a payphone.
Well, I have to go. Tell me how you spend your days. What news do you have? I will tell you more about myself in my next letter.
My regards to your mom! It’s sad to grow up without paternal love; I am very sorry.
Yours, Maria.
p.s., I am really glad that we met
--This is her last message, I am waiting for the follow-up—but how far will she go? --------------------------------------------------------------------
i
Good evening Zendy, good evening everyone,
I am also in contact with "Maria" (mariaprim79@yahoo.fr).
I received the same letters as you and probably more.
The scam is really astonishing.
Here is the continuation that I received today:
Hi my dear xxxx!
Finally, I have a chance to write to you. Forgive me for not having done it earlier. xxxx, how are you? What's new in your life? What are you thinking about? I hope there is a place for me in your thoughts. Sorry that I cannot write to you more often or even every day. But I am very busy now, I am preparing for my trip. I am very happy that you wrote to me. Excuse me for forgetting to write my name, I didn’t think it was so important to you. So, let’s do it this way, in my next letter I will scan my passport and send it to you so that you can trust me (if you need my details to trust me), okay? :) I am in Moscow now. Moscow is a beautiful and large city. There are a lot of people here and it is a bit inconvenient. Everyone is in a hurry. There is noise in the streets. There are many people on the metro. Everyone is preoccupied with their problems. It’s true that Moscow is different from other Russian cities. Primorsk is a quiet city. There people are simple and open. It’s a big difference. The trip took 8 hours to get to Moscow. Every day we go to classes. I didn’t think that the education would be so intense. But each of us is happy. Everyone is expecting something new from this trip. We discuss everything in the group. None of us has ever been to France. Please tell me how Russians are treated in France? I know that our government is not very popular in the world. I also know that in the Baltic countries they don't like Russians. I worry a bit about all this. We were told that we have a great chance to participate in this program. It is very difficult for an ordinary Russian citizen to go abroad. For that, you need to do a lot of paperwork and get permissions. You need to have a lot of time and money to get the visa. I am really happy to have such a chance. Well, I will tell you the news... First of all, the doctors will arrive in Paris. There we will be divided into several groups that will go to different regions of France later. The region is on the list and I will go there. But I don’t know which clinic or hospital I will work at. We will find out later. Tomorrow I will return home. I need to hand over my position to another doctor who will work in my place. In a few days we will have to go to Moscow once again. Then we will be given our visas and we will be informed of our places of work in France. After that, we will leave for France right away. Today we had the last class with Professor Belkin. He talked to us about the peculiarities of health insurance in France. Tomorrow I will get my foreign passport. xxxx, can you believe all this? Tomorrow we will be told the exact date of our arrival in France. xxxx, I will send you a letter when I return to Primorsk to tell you my news. My train leaves tomorrow. It’s so close... xxxx, I will try to call you after I arrive in Primorsk. I would like to hear your voice. I smile when I imagine your voice. I am happy that we are sincere with each other. I think this is the way people should communicate. We should not hide our thoughts and feelings. I do. I am ready to take my destiny. xxxx, I believe in happiness. I think I am lucky because I met you. I look forward to the moment of our meeting. I know I might seem worried about the "us" conversation. I want you to know about my feelings. xxxx, I always think about you. I miss you in the evenings. I imagine you smiling, talking.... I am sorry that you are not here, close to me or that I am not in France near you. I would like to touch your hand, look into your eyes... I want you to know that I am interested in a closer relationship between us. xxxx, I would like to know your thoughts about us. Do you really want us to meet? I know that I will need your support at first to adapt to a new life. I am happy that I met you. Don’t think that this is just words. I sincerely appreciate our relationship and I worry about you. I have good feelings for you and I would like to develop our friendship. I look forward to the moment of our meeting with impatience. You know, I talked to my uncle about this. He is very happy for me. He said that it is my life and I deserve to be happy. He also told me to be careful with new people and with you. I am not a little girl, but he thinks I am still too young. Don’t take it badly, he just wants me to be safe. xxxx, I worry a lot. I worry when I think about our meeting. I would like us to meet like old friends with a light romantic feeling. I would like to visit a nice restaurant for dinner. In the evening we can take a walk and see curiosities. I would like to be tender and calm. I would like to talk and smile during our meeting... It’s interesting how it will go... In the past, my life was not so interesting and I cannot get used to this current state. Everything is happening very quickly and it seems to me that soon my future will be different. I may seem naive, but I have a feeling that all my dreams are coming true. Tomorrow I will have a hard and important day. Write to me soon, please. I am worried about my arrival and I would like you to support my spirit. I don’t know all this well. I know my letter is messy. Forgive me. I will write you all the details after I arrive home. Tell me how you spend your days. Big kisses, Your Maria P.S. I bought a gift for you.
If someone knows what comes next?
I am also in contact with "Maria" (mariaprim79@yahoo.fr).
I received the same letters as you and probably more.
The scam is really astonishing.
Here is the continuation that I received today:
Hi my dear xxxx!
Finally, I have a chance to write to you. Forgive me for not having done it earlier. xxxx, how are you? What's new in your life? What are you thinking about? I hope there is a place for me in your thoughts. Sorry that I cannot write to you more often or even every day. But I am very busy now, I am preparing for my trip. I am very happy that you wrote to me. Excuse me for forgetting to write my name, I didn’t think it was so important to you. So, let’s do it this way, in my next letter I will scan my passport and send it to you so that you can trust me (if you need my details to trust me), okay? :) I am in Moscow now. Moscow is a beautiful and large city. There are a lot of people here and it is a bit inconvenient. Everyone is in a hurry. There is noise in the streets. There are many people on the metro. Everyone is preoccupied with their problems. It’s true that Moscow is different from other Russian cities. Primorsk is a quiet city. There people are simple and open. It’s a big difference. The trip took 8 hours to get to Moscow. Every day we go to classes. I didn’t think that the education would be so intense. But each of us is happy. Everyone is expecting something new from this trip. We discuss everything in the group. None of us has ever been to France. Please tell me how Russians are treated in France? I know that our government is not very popular in the world. I also know that in the Baltic countries they don't like Russians. I worry a bit about all this. We were told that we have a great chance to participate in this program. It is very difficult for an ordinary Russian citizen to go abroad. For that, you need to do a lot of paperwork and get permissions. You need to have a lot of time and money to get the visa. I am really happy to have such a chance. Well, I will tell you the news... First of all, the doctors will arrive in Paris. There we will be divided into several groups that will go to different regions of France later. The region is on the list and I will go there. But I don’t know which clinic or hospital I will work at. We will find out later. Tomorrow I will return home. I need to hand over my position to another doctor who will work in my place. In a few days we will have to go to Moscow once again. Then we will be given our visas and we will be informed of our places of work in France. After that, we will leave for France right away. Today we had the last class with Professor Belkin. He talked to us about the peculiarities of health insurance in France. Tomorrow I will get my foreign passport. xxxx, can you believe all this? Tomorrow we will be told the exact date of our arrival in France. xxxx, I will send you a letter when I return to Primorsk to tell you my news. My train leaves tomorrow. It’s so close... xxxx, I will try to call you after I arrive in Primorsk. I would like to hear your voice. I smile when I imagine your voice. I am happy that we are sincere with each other. I think this is the way people should communicate. We should not hide our thoughts and feelings. I do. I am ready to take my destiny. xxxx, I believe in happiness. I think I am lucky because I met you. I look forward to the moment of our meeting. I know I might seem worried about the "us" conversation. I want you to know about my feelings. xxxx, I always think about you. I miss you in the evenings. I imagine you smiling, talking.... I am sorry that you are not here, close to me or that I am not in France near you. I would like to touch your hand, look into your eyes... I want you to know that I am interested in a closer relationship between us. xxxx, I would like to know your thoughts about us. Do you really want us to meet? I know that I will need your support at first to adapt to a new life. I am happy that I met you. Don’t think that this is just words. I sincerely appreciate our relationship and I worry about you. I have good feelings for you and I would like to develop our friendship. I look forward to the moment of our meeting with impatience. You know, I talked to my uncle about this. He is very happy for me. He said that it is my life and I deserve to be happy. He also told me to be careful with new people and with you. I am not a little girl, but he thinks I am still too young. Don’t take it badly, he just wants me to be safe. xxxx, I worry a lot. I worry when I think about our meeting. I would like us to meet like old friends with a light romantic feeling. I would like to visit a nice restaurant for dinner. In the evening we can take a walk and see curiosities. I would like to be tender and calm. I would like to talk and smile during our meeting... It’s interesting how it will go... In the past, my life was not so interesting and I cannot get used to this current state. Everything is happening very quickly and it seems to me that soon my future will be different. I may seem naive, but I have a feeling that all my dreams are coming true. Tomorrow I will have a hard and important day. Write to me soon, please. I am worried about my arrival and I would like you to support my spirit. I don’t know all this well. I know my letter is messy. Forgive me. I will write you all the details after I arrive home. Tell me how you spend your days. Big kisses, Your Maria P.S. I bought a gift for you.
If someone knows what comes next?
Good evening, personally I am in contact with irina098@gmail.com. After various phone and email exchanges, I sent money via Western Union, around 400€. This woman is supposed to arrive tomorrow, May 15, at 8:45 PM. Unfortunately, there has been a twist; she writes to inform me that the French embassy has told her she needs to have €1,800 on May 15 in order to pass customs—suspicious! I called the French embassy in Russia, and unfortunately, it turns out to be a scam. Worse, the person in question apparently has not obtained a visa or passport as she claimed. I got taken for a fool! Be careful of this individual! Personally, I will forward this to a lawyer if it’s useful!
Hello, be careful, marieprim79 is the fiercest! She's the same "girl" (well, unless she's a big bearded guy) as annavyb79 (Finland border and so on...). I was suspicious from the start because she contacted me with both emails!!!! And Google helped me do the rest...
The rest is here: http://www.escrocs.net/arnaques/escroquerie-amour-avec-femme-russe-i.htm
The story is #40, do a search on the page.
You're going to be shocked, but at least in two emails when she asks you for money, you'll know to stay calm.
By the way, I received the same letter as you yesterday... We're at the same point!
We can exchange photos to see if we have the same ones?
Bye, and take care!
The rest is here: http://www.escrocs.net/arnaques/escroquerie-amour-avec-femme-russe-i.htm
The story is #40, do a search on the page.
You're going to be shocked, but at least in two emails when she asks you for money, you'll know to stay calm.
By the way, I received the same letter as you yesterday... We're at the same point!
We can exchange photos to see if we have the same ones?
Bye, and take care!
Test done just to see what it was like, I doubt you'll get a response, it seems that the email address no longer exists.
Didn't she give you her nickname on Meetic? I really want to check that.
And did you keep her photos? I have some too, but of a Julia, if you want we can compare, to make sure it's not the same scam?
If you want my MSN: to send them to me: trinaoned@live.fr.
Best regards.
Didn't she give you her nickname on Meetic? I really want to check that.
And did you keep her photos? I have some too, but of a Julia, if you want we can compare, to make sure it's not the same scam?
If you want my MSN: to send them to me: trinaoned@live.fr.
Best regards.
Hello,
I left a message here on December 25, 2009. I mentioned a site but couldn't remember the address. It's: http://www.partner-services.com/
I met several women there. I am married to one today. A very nice woman in every way. This site requires certification from both women and men (sending a copy of the passport). A guarantee of reliability in itself. I am shocked when I see your problems with Russian women. I know many of them as friends, they are very nice women. Don't fall into the commercial traps like anastasiadate.com or others... the real site is a bit like a French version of Meetic. Signing up and paying a subscription is fine! But afterwards, you can do whatever you want, including exchanging email addresses. Don't pay anything and go there (they may not necessarily have the means - for us a round trip flight costs between 400 and 600 €. A little savings and then hop!!! For them, it's two months' salary... check out the indicated site, it's very well explained)
Good luck to everyone.
I left a message here on December 25, 2009. I mentioned a site but couldn't remember the address. It's: http://www.partner-services.com/
I met several women there. I am married to one today. A very nice woman in every way. This site requires certification from both women and men (sending a copy of the passport). A guarantee of reliability in itself. I am shocked when I see your problems with Russian women. I know many of them as friends, they are very nice women. Don't fall into the commercial traps like anastasiadate.com or others... the real site is a bit like a French version of Meetic. Signing up and paying a subscription is fine! But afterwards, you can do whatever you want, including exchanging email addresses. Don't pay anything and go there (they may not necessarily have the means - for us a round trip flight costs between 400 and 600 €. A little savings and then hop!!! For them, it's two months' salary... check out the indicated site, it's very well explained)
Good luck to everyone.
Hello friends, I think one of those rascals is setting a trap for me lol.
Let me explain, I made the big mistake of signing up a while ago on meetyourmessenger, no one ever talked to me, and then last week a girl started chatting with me, a beautiful Russian, blonde, with a perfect body, a delight really... lol, she gave me her email so we could chat by email ^^, we talked all week, and guys, seriously, she must be well trained in this, so we chat, she's all happy to read my letters and everything, finally we chat, I played along because I felt the trap coming a mile away. We talk kindly, then suddenly she says she loves me and everything, so I play along a bit to see if she's going to ask me for money. She continues, she says she loves me, that she wants us to be together, considering marriage lol (a week has passed and she already wants to marry me? Save yourselves lol), and suddenly she tells me she's going to look into a visa blabla, then you sense the trap being set, and the next day, she says "I went to look into the visa, I'm sad it's expensive blablabla, no one can help me, I need you to send me 300€ for the papers" lol, and that this way we will live happily ever after because she loves me and all that lol. So I'm giving you the username just in case, it's: "lenkaboroda@yahoo.com" and she says her name is "Elena Borodina".
So I just have a little trick to spot the scam, because in my opinion, it’s a multinational LOL, the writing is weird, and the reading is painful, so we think it's because she has a bit of trouble with our language, but not at all, what you should do, and if you have "word", is to copy her message, paste it into "word", and then select it, and you can translate it with Word, do the translation into English, and you'll suddenly see a lot fewer mistakes. These mistakes are simply due to the translator who is stupid and just translates the text word for word without considering the grammatical rules of the other language ;)
So my friends, be careful, and above all, because we can never say it enough, never send money whatever the reason, because these ruthless people don't hesitate to play on emotions ;).
What I advise you is to play a bit with these scammers like I'm doing by saying I don't have any money blablabla and see what happens ;) it can become amusing lol.
Catch you later!
Let me explain, I made the big mistake of signing up a while ago on meetyourmessenger, no one ever talked to me, and then last week a girl started chatting with me, a beautiful Russian, blonde, with a perfect body, a delight really... lol, she gave me her email so we could chat by email ^^, we talked all week, and guys, seriously, she must be well trained in this, so we chat, she's all happy to read my letters and everything, finally we chat, I played along because I felt the trap coming a mile away. We talk kindly, then suddenly she says she loves me and everything, so I play along a bit to see if she's going to ask me for money. She continues, she says she loves me, that she wants us to be together, considering marriage lol (a week has passed and she already wants to marry me? Save yourselves lol), and suddenly she tells me she's going to look into a visa blabla, then you sense the trap being set, and the next day, she says "I went to look into the visa, I'm sad it's expensive blablabla, no one can help me, I need you to send me 300€ for the papers" lol, and that this way we will live happily ever after because she loves me and all that lol. So I'm giving you the username just in case, it's: "lenkaboroda@yahoo.com" and she says her name is "Elena Borodina".
So I just have a little trick to spot the scam, because in my opinion, it’s a multinational LOL, the writing is weird, and the reading is painful, so we think it's because she has a bit of trouble with our language, but not at all, what you should do, and if you have "word", is to copy her message, paste it into "word", and then select it, and you can translate it with Word, do the translation into English, and you'll suddenly see a lot fewer mistakes. These mistakes are simply due to the translator who is stupid and just translates the text word for word without considering the grammatical rules of the other language ;)
So my friends, be careful, and above all, because we can never say it enough, never send money whatever the reason, because these ruthless people don't hesitate to play on emotions ;).
What I advise you is to play a bit with these scammers like I'm doing by saying I don't have any money blablabla and see what happens ;) it can become amusing lol.
Catch you later!
Hi,
Well, it's simple, it's a scam. At some point, she will want to come see you, but she doesn't have enough money to come, so you will have to help her financially to make it happen.
Look around you, man, there are plenty of girls in France.
I have to say, those Russians are pretty tempting, huh? Just don’t give her anything; ask her questions like her mobile phone number, where she works, etc., and you’ll see that you won’t get many answers to your questions. And if you pay, well, either her mom or her grandma is very sick, and your money is gone to save them, sniff. Her mom is just fine and she’s drinking champagne on your dime.
So, don't be disappointed; come to terms with it, and if you really think about it, what a mess you’re getting into with a relationship like this.
Oh, and if you really want to be sure, just don’t respond to her messages when she asks you for help. She’s also no longer on her dating profile. If it’s for a plane ticket, tell her to send you the little money she has because you have a friend who can find interesting ticket prices, and you’ll send it to her electronically. Just wait and see her reaction, hhiiihihihihi, I'm having fun. Anyway, don’t get carried away, man, be patient; love is close by.
Good luck!
Well, it's simple, it's a scam. At some point, she will want to come see you, but she doesn't have enough money to come, so you will have to help her financially to make it happen.
Look around you, man, there are plenty of girls in France.
I have to say, those Russians are pretty tempting, huh? Just don’t give her anything; ask her questions like her mobile phone number, where she works, etc., and you’ll see that you won’t get many answers to your questions. And if you pay, well, either her mom or her grandma is very sick, and your money is gone to save them, sniff. Her mom is just fine and she’s drinking champagne on your dime.
So, don't be disappointed; come to terms with it, and if you really think about it, what a mess you’re getting into with a relationship like this.
Oh, and if you really want to be sure, just don’t respond to her messages when she asks you for help. She’s also no longer on her dating profile. If it’s for a plane ticket, tell her to send you the little money she has because you have a friend who can find interesting ticket prices, and you’ll send it to her electronically. Just wait and see her reaction, hhiiihihihihi, I'm having fun. Anyway, don’t get carried away, man, be patient; love is close by.
Good luck!
Hello ptyloup
Can you give me your email address so I can send you the photos of my so-called Russian darling LOL... Here is her address (ledilove@gmail.com) just beware the photos are of a super hot girl like you all I suppose?
Can you give me your email address so I can send you the photos of my so-called Russian darling LOL... Here is her address (ledilove@gmail.com) just beware the photos are of a super hot girl like you all I suppose?
ledilove and maria prim are the same
I am happy that you wrote to me. I was waiting a lot for your letter. I don't know how to start getting to know you and about yourself. But I think we can learn a lot from each other, and our relationship will be pleasant. I would like you to send more photos and answer my questions sincerely. I love sincerity and truth, whatever it may be. I will be waiting for your letter with impatience. Your new acquaintance Ekaterina.
I am happy that you wrote to me. I was waiting a lot for your letter. I don't know how to start getting to know you and about yourself. But I think we can learn a lot from each other, and our relationship will be pleasant. I would like you to send more photos and answer my questions sincerely. I love sincerity and truth, whatever it may be. I will be waiting for your letter with impatience. Your new acquaintance Ekaterina.
For me, I received photos for 3 weeks, of her family, her friends (women, of course), and her cat as well.
In total, 20 photos. The first week I believed it, and I started having doubts. Since she doesn't read the
emails, she doesn't really respond to the questions we ask. For example, I asked her for a phone number,
she never replies. But as soon as she starts asking for financial help, it's clear it's a scam, and it definitely hurts the heart. The person in the photos is a knockout, and I sent a final email
saying that we are more united, intelligent, and smarter than them, and that for them, vodka and making war
is all they know how to do (well, I was angry, and I’m taking it out on the scammer, of course trying to break her down).
So that's it, it's over. I'll be more careful next time.
In total, 20 photos. The first week I believed it, and I started having doubts. Since she doesn't read the
emails, she doesn't really respond to the questions we ask. For example, I asked her for a phone number,
she never replies. But as soon as she starts asking for financial help, it's clear it's a scam, and it definitely hurts the heart. The person in the photos is a knockout, and I sent a final email
saying that we are more united, intelligent, and smarter than them, and that for them, vodka and making war
is all they know how to do (well, I was angry, and I’m taking it out on the scammer, of course trying to break her down).
So that's it, it's over. I'll be more careful next time.
Ilona Safronova has been blacklisted
she is of course registered on another dating site???? good news!!!!! she lives 66 km from Toulon
WITH AN EMAIL ADDRESS IN RUSSIA (ILONA-SAFRONOVA@RAMBLER.) she is married, and she lives in France???????
KlinRussiailonkedeneg@yahoo.com, reachable there too!!!! ah!!!!!!!!! you want her address!!!!!!!! no problem uncle krist takes care of it, (Ilona Safronova 44, Pushkin St. app. 13a 423450) she still lives there!!!
damn, another site tells me she has aged by 1 year???? and she is divorced, (unlucky for this girl)
and of course, her magic phrase?? MINE, and not at all fussy, buddies
aunt ILONA IS LOOKING FOR A MAN BETWEEN 25 AND 65 YEARS OLD? (proving that a man's sex has no age) heinnnnnnnn
naughty, kisses my darlings
she is of course registered on another dating site???? good news!!!!! she lives 66 km from Toulon
WITH AN EMAIL ADDRESS IN RUSSIA (ILONA-SAFRONOVA@RAMBLER.) she is married, and she lives in France???????
KlinRussiailonkedeneg@yahoo.com, reachable there too!!!! ah!!!!!!!!! you want her address!!!!!!!! no problem uncle krist takes care of it, (Ilona Safronova 44, Pushkin St. app. 13a 423450) she still lives there!!!
damn, another site tells me she has aged by 1 year???? and she is divorced, (unlucky for this girl)
and of course, her magic phrase?? MINE, and not at all fussy, buddies
aunt ILONA IS LOOKING FOR A MAN BETWEEN 25 AND 65 YEARS OLD? (proving that a man's sex has no age) heinnnnnnnn
naughty, kisses my darlings
Hello, I too am a victim of annaprim79@yahoo.fr. We've been communicating for 4 weeks and the letters are exactly the same as yours, except that I am from Belgium. She claims to be a dentist and is coming to work in Belgium. She clings to me and is ready to do anything, but she hasn't asked me for money yet. However, we are far along in our discussion. Looking forward to the next part.
Hello, I, too, am a victim of an annaprim79@yahoo.fr. It's been 4 weeks since we've been communicating, and it's identically the same letters as yours, except that I'm from Belgium. She claims to be a dentist and is coming to work in Belgium. She's hanging on to me and is ready to do anything, but she hasn't asked me for money yet. We are quite far along in our conversation; I can't wait for the next part.
Hi Fabrizio, how are you? Thank you for your letter, I’m delighted to receive it. I tried to call you, but to no avail. No one answered. I really wanted to talk to you very much.
First of all, I’m sorry, my letter will be short. Today has been a very tough day, I’m tired, and I don’t have good news about my mother.
I spoke with my father on the phone. He told me that the doctors' fears have been confirmed, and my mother needs urgent surgery. The tests and the medical examination showed a bad result. My mother has had heart problems for a long time, and a recent illness has caused a worsening. After a detailed examination, the doctor said she needs to be operated on urgently. My mother’s condition is satisfactory for now, but even slight agitation could trigger a heart attack. The illness has worsened. This news is overwhelming for me.
My father said they have transferred my mother to another clinic. The doctors at this clinic are well qualified, and the conditions are good there. The operation will be complicated, but my mother will definitely recover. Such operations are often performed at this clinic. The operation and treatment cost 3400 euros. That’s not a small amount. I have already sent 1900 euros to my father. I sent all the money I had to pay for my program, and I also borrowed some money from my friends. My uncle helped as best he could, and my father covered the rest. He took all his savings and took out a loan from the bank. My father has already paid for the operation, and my mother will be operated on this weekend.
Fabrizio, I feel heavy when I write this letter. It’s hard to understand that my closest person is very sick and needs help. My uncle and I are doing everything we can to help him. When I spoke with my father, I understood that he loves my mother. Usually, he is very calm, but now he is desperate. He told me that he couldn’t live if my mother were to die. To me, their relationship is always the ideal of family life. He loves my mother very much, and he is afraid of losing her. I explained that modern medicine treats these illnesses. We have to wait until the end of the operation. Everything will be fine. It seems to me that my father feels a bit better.
Fabrizio, don’t worry, my plans haven’t changed; I’m coming to Belgium. My mother said that I need to leave to make my life. We have put a lot of effort into this program, and I cannot cancel everything. I’ve thought a lot about it and have consulted with my father. We made this decision together. I hope the operation goes well and that my mother recovers before I leave. I hope that will be the case, and I can leave for Belgium peacefully.
I’m sorry my letter is short, and there isn’t any good news. I know you are waiting for my letter, but I don’t have much time and energy to write to you. This day has been very hard for me. I’m preparing for my departure, and I have many things to do. I’ve given the money, prepared to pay for this trip and my program for my mother’s operation. Don’t worry about that; my flight leaves on May 29, and I still have time. I know a man who can help me. He is a friend of my uncle’s, and we have already set up an appointment with him.
Give me news about yourself; I will wait for your email. Please reply to me right away; I need your support.
I will write more next time to tell you about my news. Kisses,
Anna
Hi Fabrizio, how are you? Thank you for your letter, I’m delighted to receive it. I tried to call you, but to no avail. No one answered. I really wanted to talk to you very much.
First of all, I’m sorry, my letter will be short. Today has been a very tough day, I’m tired, and I don’t have good news about my mother.
I spoke with my father on the phone. He told me that the doctors' fears have been confirmed, and my mother needs urgent surgery. The tests and the medical examination showed a bad result. My mother has had heart problems for a long time, and a recent illness has caused a worsening. After a detailed examination, the doctor said she needs to be operated on urgently. My mother’s condition is satisfactory for now, but even slight agitation could trigger a heart attack. The illness has worsened. This news is overwhelming for me.
My father said they have transferred my mother to another clinic. The doctors at this clinic are well qualified, and the conditions are good there. The operation will be complicated, but my mother will definitely recover. Such operations are often performed at this clinic. The operation and treatment cost 3400 euros. That’s not a small amount. I have already sent 1900 euros to my father. I sent all the money I had to pay for my program, and I also borrowed some money from my friends. My uncle helped as best he could, and my father covered the rest. He took all his savings and took out a loan from the bank. My father has already paid for the operation, and my mother will be operated on this weekend.
Fabrizio, I feel heavy when I write this letter. It’s hard to understand that my closest person is very sick and needs help. My uncle and I are doing everything we can to help him. When I spoke with my father, I understood that he loves my mother. Usually, he is very calm, but now he is desperate. He told me that he couldn’t live if my mother were to die. To me, their relationship is always the ideal of family life. He loves my mother very much, and he is afraid of losing her. I explained that modern medicine treats these illnesses. We have to wait until the end of the operation. Everything will be fine. It seems to me that my father feels a bit better.
Fabrizio, don’t worry, my plans haven’t changed; I’m coming to Belgium. My mother said that I need to leave to make my life. We have put a lot of effort into this program, and I cannot cancel everything. I’ve thought a lot about it and have consulted with my father. We made this decision together. I hope the operation goes well and that my mother recovers before I leave. I hope that will be the case, and I can leave for Belgium peacefully.
I’m sorry my letter is short, and there isn’t any good news. I know you are waiting for my letter, but I don’t have much time and energy to write to you. This day has been very hard for me. I’m preparing for my departure, and I have many things to do. I’ve given the money, prepared to pay for this trip and my program for my mother’s operation. Don’t worry about that; my flight leaves on May 29, and I still have time. I know a man who can help me. He is a friend of my uncle’s, and we have already set up an appointment with him.
Give me news about yourself; I will wait for your email. Please reply to me right away; I need your support.
I will write more next time to tell you about my news. Kisses,
Anna
I have the continuation. Here it is :-) There are many like her
Here is your ANNA :-)
Hi Jipe. I’m writing to you as soon as I can. How are you?
I have good news for you. My mother was successfully operated on. My father said
that everything went well and there is no longer any danger to her life. I cried
tears of joy after hearing this news. The operation was not difficult.
Now my mother has to follow the diet and the recommendations of the doctors
to recover. My mother has to stay in the hospital for a while,
but soon she will be back home. I thank God that it all ended well.
My mother is recovering and I am happy. It has been a terrible few days for
me and my father. I’m sorry that my mother is still in the hospital, but now
I know that everything will be okay.
Other news is not so good. I met with the man from whom
I wanted to borrow money for my trip. He is a good friend of my
uncle, he has his own small business, he sells flowers. We went to his place with
my uncle. He could only lend me 400 euros. It’s spring,
not much is sold in flowers, and he bought a new apartment for
his shop. He regretted a lot, but that’s a large sum, and it’s all he could give.
I tried a few other options. We went to several banks with
my uncle to apply for a loan. The banks do not want to work with
us because we do not have any property, for example, apartments or a car.
I sold my apartment a long time ago and used that money for
my business, which I lost. My father cannot take out a loan for
me because he already has one; he had already borrowed money from the bank
for my mother’s operation. We gave everything we had for
my mother’s operation and for the medications.
My uncle and my friends helped me. They are not rich, and it’s a large amount for them. They have families and children. I borrowed a portion of the money that I had sent to my father for my mother’s operation, but they were able to find another 250 euros for me.
I talked to Oleg about our union and explained my situation. He regretted a lot, but he can’t do anything. I have to find this money myself. He has already done a lot for me and for my trip.
You know that my flight leaves on May 29.. Oleg said that I could take the flight at the latest on May 30-31, but what difference does that make?
I need to pay the money for my program before that day to take all my
documents and leave for Brussels. If I can't find the money by that day, I would be deprived of the opportunity to work in Belgium. They won’t give me the visa, and my trip will be canceled. Time is my enemy now.
Jipe, I have exhausted all possibilities. I am so sad and confused.
Jipe, I would like to address you. Please help me come to Belgium.
I’m sorry that I couldn’t find the money myself, but I did everything I could. I understand what you might think of me. I don’t like borrowing money, and I would never do it if I could do everything myself. Now I really need your help. I have very little time.
Jipe, can you help me? Right now I have 650 euros. I still need 850 euros. I’ve counted everything. I will pay you back in a month. I will be paid 1300 euros per month, and I will have a free apartment.
You see, I will be able to pay you back quickly. I could even pay you extra money for your help. I really tried every option I had here.
Jipe, you are the only person I know in Belgium. I don’t want to mix our relationship and money. I made a mistake once already. But I have no other options. Of course, I will work in your area. I know that even if we don’t have anything between us, we will always be good friends. Jipe, from your letters I see that you are a man with a great soul and an open heart, and I really like you. I have feelings for you, and I would like to develop those feelings. Maybe you are the man of my destiny, and I am your destiny. I will be in Belgium for 12 months. That’s enough time to make a decision about us. I am an honest woman and I could never betray or hurt you. You can trust me.
This trip means a lot to me. Right now it’s my only chance to come to Belgium and start a new life. Jipe, I already told you about my plans for my future. I would like to come to Belgium, earn some money, find a good man, and enjoy our life together. Maybe I’ve already found that man… YOU…. I can’t bear to think that everything could be destroyed. Oleg said that all upcoming programs are stopped, and this is my last chance.
I can’t stay in Russia, I worked hard for this trip to become a reality. I’m scared to think what will happen to my mother when she finds out that my dreams have been destroyed because of her. I was sure I wouldn’t have any problems and that he would help me. The slightest agitation could provoke a new aggravation of the illness.
Jipe, I hope you understand me and that this letter will not change your feelings for me. I miss you and I would like to meet you. I don’t want to leave everything behind; I still have hope. Please help me.
I am desperate.
I will wait for your response with all my hope.
your Anna
Here is your ANNA :-)
Hi Jipe. I’m writing to you as soon as I can. How are you?
I have good news for you. My mother was successfully operated on. My father said
that everything went well and there is no longer any danger to her life. I cried
tears of joy after hearing this news. The operation was not difficult.
Now my mother has to follow the diet and the recommendations of the doctors
to recover. My mother has to stay in the hospital for a while,
but soon she will be back home. I thank God that it all ended well.
My mother is recovering and I am happy. It has been a terrible few days for
me and my father. I’m sorry that my mother is still in the hospital, but now
I know that everything will be okay.
Other news is not so good. I met with the man from whom
I wanted to borrow money for my trip. He is a good friend of my
uncle, he has his own small business, he sells flowers. We went to his place with
my uncle. He could only lend me 400 euros. It’s spring,
not much is sold in flowers, and he bought a new apartment for
his shop. He regretted a lot, but that’s a large sum, and it’s all he could give.
I tried a few other options. We went to several banks with
my uncle to apply for a loan. The banks do not want to work with
us because we do not have any property, for example, apartments or a car.
I sold my apartment a long time ago and used that money for
my business, which I lost. My father cannot take out a loan for
me because he already has one; he had already borrowed money from the bank
for my mother’s operation. We gave everything we had for
my mother’s operation and for the medications.
My uncle and my friends helped me. They are not rich, and it’s a large amount for them. They have families and children. I borrowed a portion of the money that I had sent to my father for my mother’s operation, but they were able to find another 250 euros for me.
I talked to Oleg about our union and explained my situation. He regretted a lot, but he can’t do anything. I have to find this money myself. He has already done a lot for me and for my trip.
You know that my flight leaves on May 29.. Oleg said that I could take the flight at the latest on May 30-31, but what difference does that make?
I need to pay the money for my program before that day to take all my
documents and leave for Brussels. If I can't find the money by that day, I would be deprived of the opportunity to work in Belgium. They won’t give me the visa, and my trip will be canceled. Time is my enemy now.
Jipe, I have exhausted all possibilities. I am so sad and confused.
Jipe, I would like to address you. Please help me come to Belgium.
I’m sorry that I couldn’t find the money myself, but I did everything I could. I understand what you might think of me. I don’t like borrowing money, and I would never do it if I could do everything myself. Now I really need your help. I have very little time.
Jipe, can you help me? Right now I have 650 euros. I still need 850 euros. I’ve counted everything. I will pay you back in a month. I will be paid 1300 euros per month, and I will have a free apartment.
You see, I will be able to pay you back quickly. I could even pay you extra money for your help. I really tried every option I had here.
Jipe, you are the only person I know in Belgium. I don’t want to mix our relationship and money. I made a mistake once already. But I have no other options. Of course, I will work in your area. I know that even if we don’t have anything between us, we will always be good friends. Jipe, from your letters I see that you are a man with a great soul and an open heart, and I really like you. I have feelings for you, and I would like to develop those feelings. Maybe you are the man of my destiny, and I am your destiny. I will be in Belgium for 12 months. That’s enough time to make a decision about us. I am an honest woman and I could never betray or hurt you. You can trust me.
This trip means a lot to me. Right now it’s my only chance to come to Belgium and start a new life. Jipe, I already told you about my plans for my future. I would like to come to Belgium, earn some money, find a good man, and enjoy our life together. Maybe I’ve already found that man… YOU…. I can’t bear to think that everything could be destroyed. Oleg said that all upcoming programs are stopped, and this is my last chance.
I can’t stay in Russia, I worked hard for this trip to become a reality. I’m scared to think what will happen to my mother when she finds out that my dreams have been destroyed because of her. I was sure I wouldn’t have any problems and that he would help me. The slightest agitation could provoke a new aggravation of the illness.
Jipe, I hope you understand me and that this letter will not change your feelings for me. I miss you and I would like to meet you. I don’t want to leave everything behind; I still have hope. Please help me.
I am desperate.
I will wait for your response with all my hope.
your Anna
They all think we're idiots lol... we're not doing badly in this situation, as far as I can see, of course it's a scam, honestly, don't dream about it, personally I went through it too, and I understood right away, already the dating sites are nonsense in general, I had tried like everyone else to see, but I quickly gave up, and who comes to say hello one day, guess what, a Russian doll who loves me without knowing me hahaha... if my aunt had balls, we would call her my uncle lol... even though I never go, I didn't even remember I still had an account, because women aren't found online guys, there are so many in our cities, we need to go out a bit... but where I agree with you is that the storyline is getting better and better crafted, oh if we're not careful right away we could get caught, exchange of doctors, and everything yes we had to think about that, but the end is always the same, mom is sick so we need money for this poor woman, what a joke lol... for my part if the screenwriter is good, I'm not a less good actor, so I play the game to have fun, I can be very inventive too :)
Have fun guys and watch out for these scammers, it's your money they want to suck, not anything else...
Have fun guys and watch out for these scammers, it's your money they want to suck, not anything else...
Indeed, there's no need to be fooled. Their story is likely very well crafted.
From a reliable source, the authorities no longer count the reports of complaints for this type of scam.
Just to clarify: it is, to my knowledge, Russian women who usually contact men on dating sites.
When one is alone, it's easy to want to believe what they write (or at least we believe it at first), because we're not used to being "pampered" by French women. It's perhaps not in the habits or culture...
In the end, isn't a chance meeting on the street, at the bakery, with friends or elsewhere... in short, a spontaneous encounter more effective and enriching? Still, one must be willing to leave their home and remain open.
Have a nice weekend!
From a reliable source, the authorities no longer count the reports of complaints for this type of scam.
Just to clarify: it is, to my knowledge, Russian women who usually contact men on dating sites.
When one is alone, it's easy to want to believe what they write (or at least we believe it at first), because we're not used to being "pampered" by French women. It's perhaps not in the habits or culture...
In the end, isn't a chance meeting on the street, at the bakery, with friends or elsewhere... in short, a spontaneous encounter more effective and enriching? Still, one must be willing to leave their home and remain open.
Have a nice weekend!
Yes, solitude doesn't help... and they play on it... even I, who am super rational, almost believed it... or maybe I wanted to... she seemed simple, honest... credible... and then, here I am reading your comments, here, while doing a simple search about her... and I discover the same address mentioned... and the same letters... it’s a shock, I had been responding to her for over a month... I feel so stupid now... ridiculed by a scammer... how do you say it again? the raven swore, but a little too late (not too late, I didn't give her any money, just my name and postal address), that we'd be taken in no more... thank you anyway for reading me, and also for opening my eyes... a warned man is worth two... duly noted...
Hi, I'm amused to see your comments. A few years ago, I almost got scammed on russianeuro.com, but as soon as I read "western-union," my survival alert systems kick in. In the meantime, I made two friends over there on that site, proving that not all of them are like that. A guy I chatted with on a forum said that a woman he met came over, went shopping without holding back, then left claiming it just wasn't a match. It's a mafia business over there when it comes to marrying foreigners. They even go further; you've probably seen the dating sites full of beautiful women with pictures worthy of a fashion magazine looking to get married. A paid site, of course. They recruit stunning women, and they charm you on the site with the X free days; you subscribe to the membership, and then it drags on while she collects a commission from you.
Turn off your PCs and go out; our little French girls are way more interesting! And for 450 euros, you can take your French girl out to dinner :)
Turn off your PCs and go out; our little French girls are way more interesting! And for 450 euros, you can take your French girl out to dinner :)
I suggest sending everyone the same message style
Hello you,
I have completed the Western Union transfer, I am seriously worried that you won't find the money.
Look, here are the proofs
And then give them the links with the photos. Mine are online here
http://www.steekr.com/n/50-17/share/LNK81014a1bdc7de669b/
Hello you,
I have completed the Western Union transfer, I am seriously worried that you won't find the money.
Look, here are the proofs
And then give them the links with the photos. Mine are online here
http://www.steekr.com/n/50-17/share/LNK81014a1bdc7de669b/
xineohp,
Great idea to have made the photos you received visible to everyone. They are exactly the same as those I received! Not one more!
Do you think it's that girl who is writing and calling, or is it a girl whose photos are being used without her knowledge?
There's also a question I'm asking myself: if we send one or more pictures of ourselves, are these Russian scammers going to use them later to create a fake profile?.... that's the question ;-)
Great idea to have made the photos you received visible to everyone. They are exactly the same as those I received! Not one more!
Do you think it's that girl who is writing and calling, or is it a girl whose photos are being used without her knowledge?
There's also a question I'm asking myself: if we send one or more pictures of ourselves, are these Russian scammers going to use them later to create a fake profile?.... that's the question ;-)
On this occasion, I’m changing my approach and fully supporting your initiative: “long live the net pirates” when they turn into Russian anti-scammers!!! And if I had the skills, I would gladly participate in this offensive :-D
On my side, she seems to have understood that I’ve understood, after the sending of one of her future responses before she sends it to me!
On my side, she seems to have understood that I’ve understood, after the sending of one of her future responses before she sends it to me!
You know, the goal is not to "hack," but really to force the government to finally take measures against this scourge, for example by requiring dating sites to systematically verify the IPs of registrants and deny any registration coming from West Africa with a profile claiming to be American or British... also, to require free classifieds sites to be more vigilant and to have greater rigor regarding the content of their columns...
I invite you, as well as as many of you as possible, to sign the online petition: https://www.mesopinions.com/petition/
For now, along with the complaints filed by the victims, these are the only actions that the majority of us can take.
Thank you for your support.
Isis
I invite you, as well as as many of you as possible, to sign the online petition: https://www.mesopinions.com/petition/
For now, along with the complaints filed by the victims, these are the only actions that the majority of us can take.
Thank you for your support.
Isis
I was like you before. Signing petitions and thinking about strikes, I also believed that politicians were not sellouts, etc. I even thought that journalists were free... I also believed that the big conspiracy didn't exist. Stop, please, the world is a big mess organized by the power of money and nothing else. I'm not for hacking, far from it. I never do it for pleasure, I don't hate people. But be careful, there's a limit between being kind and being stupid. Playing with people's feelings is the worst thing ever. I am revolting; I know the penalties provided by the government and the laws against hacking. But in our case, it's not according to the point of view. I'm just respecting the law of retaliation brought up to date. They have harmed many people, and it is impossible for us to defend ourselves against Russians. But they also can't come against us. So you can do what you want. I have worse stories. Five years ago, I discovered a pedophile site hosted in Russia. I found the owner of the site here in Belgium. I reported all my findings to Child Focus, which couldn't help me ???? I reported the facts to the gendarmerie (they had 2 agents to do the job). They told me they couldn't do anything because the site is in Russia. And then you want me to still be nice and believe in Santa Claus? Do you want more? If in your country you can't sell a product, well, you create a merchant website hosted elsewhere, you sell whatever you want. When you've sold, you order expedited shipping from China and have it delivered to Barbados, for example. You got paid online to your account in the USA, you placed your order in China, and delivered to Barbados. The state will never get a franc, uh... euros from your transaction, and you're not punishable either; you're not doing anything illegal in your country, you did it abroad without leaving your home. LOL.
Am I making myself clear on the fact that I have rights? No, none against Russians.
Am I making myself clear on the fact that I have rights? No, none against Russians.
I know all that, xineohp, but is that a reason to do nothing? Yes, hacking their servers, what is that going to achieve for us? They will set everything back up again... No, we really need to fight to change things at the core... Yes, it may be utopian, but people are fed up with being taken for money by guys in West Africa, and what are we doing to stop it? It’s not by burying our heads in the sand or trashing everything that passes that we will move forward...
I feel the same as you, outraged by all this, I have been a victim too, and the money I lost is nothing compared to my physical and mental trauma... I don’t even know if I will be able to love again... I fight for this reason, I intervene on this forum to alert those who doubt and help the victims... A drop in the ocean? Maybe... but I have faith, and I believe in it... And by the way, those Russian girls are no more Russian than you or me... the guys behind their computers are West Africans... pretty clever, right? But what can we do in these countries where corruption reigns??? Everything is corrupt, from the cyber café owner to the Western Union agent who pockets his share... and I'm not even talking about the police and the government, who are rubbing their hands seeing this money flow into their country.... But I refuse to give up...
Isis
I feel the same as you, outraged by all this, I have been a victim too, and the money I lost is nothing compared to my physical and mental trauma... I don’t even know if I will be able to love again... I fight for this reason, I intervene on this forum to alert those who doubt and help the victims... A drop in the ocean? Maybe... but I have faith, and I believe in it... And by the way, those Russian girls are no more Russian than you or me... the guys behind their computers are West Africans... pretty clever, right? But what can we do in these countries where corruption reigns??? Everything is corrupt, from the cyber café owner to the Western Union agent who pockets his share... and I'm not even talking about the police and the government, who are rubbing their hands seeing this money flow into their country.... But I refuse to give up...
Isis
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I will wait a bit and I will inform people on the site if there is a potential problem.
And as one of the posters on this site said, there’s plenty to be found in France. Personally, tomorrow I’m going to meet a friend I met on a site, and even if she’s less pretty, she’s completely trustworthy...
So beware of scams and long live our trustworthy French women or others, whether you meet them in the street or not far from your home...